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6 Factors of Grandparent-Grandchild Closeness

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Physical Proximity to Grandchildren

Frequency of contact with grandchildren.

• Grandparents' Role in the Family

Family Expectations

Emotional bonding with grandchildren, reaching a consensus on values.

Grandparents often wonder at what age their grandchildren may lose interest in them. This phenomenon varies quite a bit from child to child. However, it mimics the common experience of many parents as kids gain autonomy and get increasingly interested in their friends. Generally, at around age 10 into their teen years, some kids start drifting away from their grandparents.

But there are things you can do to keep your relationship solid. In fact, some grandparents enjoy close relationships with their grandchildren as they grow up. There are many varied circumstances, personality traits, and lifestyle factors that influence these pivotal relationships. However, research has found some clear patterns that help to determine why some grandparents are closer to their grandchildren than others.

Social psychologists Merril Silverstein and Vern L. Bengtson, among others, have studied the concept that they call "intergenerational solidarity." They identify six key factors that influence this "solidarity" or relationship closeness. Understanding these factors can help you foster a closeness with your grandchild that's more likely to last.

While some of these factors are beyond our control, others are not. Awareness of the overarching components of the grandparent-grandchild relationship can help you focus on what you can influence to build closer bonds.

Not surprisingly, geographic closeness is one of the strongest predictors of a close relationship between grandparents and grandchildren . This may be out of the control of some grandparents, although some have demonstrated a willingness to move to be close to their grandchildren.

Another way to develop closeness is to visit frequently, if possible. But some grandparents' health and financial status can limit travel. Geographical distance isn't terribly important for grandparents who are fit, healthy, and financially able to afford the cost of frequent trips to see grandchildren .

Although there is no substitute for face-to-face interaction, technology has made it easier to build a relationship with grandchildren across the miles. Many grandparents visit with their grandchildren daily or weekly via FaceTime, Skype, or other video chat platforms.

Older grandchildren often appreciate text messages, as long as they are not overly frequent. Social networking sites are also good for staying in touch with tweens , teens, and young adult grandchildren. The bottom line is that loving grandparents can find a way to bridge the distance, even if they can't be there in person.

Grandparents who stay in frequent contact with their grandchildren have closer relationships, but physical distance isn't the only obstacle to contact. Parental divorce commonly has a drastic effect on contact between grandchildren and grandparents. Often contact increases between the custodial parent and their parents, and contact with grandchildren increases, too.

However, the parents of the non-custodial parent frequently find their contact with grandchildren greatly reduced. Since mothers more often receive physical custody, sometimes maternal grandparents have greater opportunities for time with their grandchildren after a divorce, while paternal grandparents may have a reduced role.

Today, more fathers are winning custody, and joint custody is on the rise. Perhaps in the future, divorce will not affect the grandparent-grandchild relationship as radically as it often does today.

Grandparents' Role Within the Family

When grandparents provide child care for grandchildren or become actual or surrogate parents to their grandchildren, they have a greater than average opportunity to bond. Some grandparents may take more of a parental role rather than functioning as a typical grandparent.

Interestingly, research shows that it is the regular presence of grandparents that results in closeness, rather than the functions that they perform. Whether you are a grandparent who is a guardian to your grandchildren, babysits them, mainly plays with them, or takes them on outings, you can be close to your grandchildren.

Studies show that families that expect strong relationships between the generations are more likely to have them. That's because children are taught from an early age that family members share obligations. Those obligations may include caregiving for children and for older people, financial assistance, and general sharing of tasks. And the assistance flows in both directions—from younger to older and from older to younger.

Families that have this type of culture are more likely to demonstrate strong grandparent-grandchild bonds than families in which individuality and independence top the list of values. Such families also adopt practices that keep extended families close, such as regularly sharing meals.

Although grandparents and grandchildren often report mutual closeness, grandparents may report a greater degree of closeness than the younger generation. That's just natural.

When families work as they should, children are closest to their parents and siblings. Grandparents usually occupy their second circle or tier of emotional proximity. As children grow, their circles enlarge, and their peers become vitally important to them. Sometimes, grandparents may be further displaced.

Grandparents, on the other hand, often live in a world of shrinking circles as their peers and older relatives die, move away, or suffer from serious health issues. Their children and grandchildren may come to occupy a larger space in their lives.

What is important, however, is that grandparents who establish early emotional bonds with grandchildren will find that those bonds last. Such bonds usually survive the passage of years and the many changes that both generations go through.

Research also shows that the middle generation is of vital importance in determining closeness. When grandparents and their adult children are close, closeness with grandchildren tends to come more naturally and easily.

Grandchildren often get their early values from parents and grandparents. As they mature, however, they are more likely to develop their own set of values. Families are closest when they share values, but few families will ever be in total agreement across generations.

Researchers say a generation gap sometimes develops when younger generations find older generations lacking in social tolerance and even prone to hypocrisy. Grandparents certainly do not need to abandon their values and standards, but a willingness to listen to the younger generation can go a long way. And grandparents should be sure that they practice what they preach.

Just knowing what makes a great grandparent-grandchild relationship won't magically improve family bonds or solve every issue. Of course, there are many personal and family dynamic issues at play. If a grandparent has lost contact with their grandchildren or has deep-seated family conflicts, more interventions or family therapy may be needed to restore these relationships.

A Word From Verywell

Remember that although all of these six factors can have a big influence on grandparent-grandchild closeness, the attitude of the grandparents is the most important one. And while research shows that devotion to one's grandparents isn't always a given, the grandparent-grandchild relationship can thrive when the effort is put in to build and sustain it.

In other words, grandchildren don't automatically value their elders. Instead, they learn to value their individual grandparents and the way they occupy that role. Ultimately, it is the grandparent who is determined to build a strong and lasting relationship with grandchildren who is most likely to succeed.

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By Susan Adcox Susan Adcox is a writer covering grandparenting and author of Stories From My Grandparent: An Heirloom Journal for Your Grandchild.

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6 Challenging Grandparent Styles and How to Set Boundaries

If you're struggling with the grandparent-child relationship, take some advice from our experts—as well as from fellow parents who’ve been there.

Once upon a time, there was a mom—let's call her Mary—who took her mop-topped son to stay with her parents while she and her husband went on vacation. On her return to grandma and grandpa's, Mary found her son's hair closely cropped. "He just looked messy," her mother said. Mary said nothing—but seethed for years afterward.

Look, it's no secret that there can be challenging circumstances between grandparent relationships , but there are ways to navigate even the most challenging of grandparent styles. And there are good reasons to do so: the support grandparents provide , both emotional and practical; the ways they connect you and your kids to your family's history; and the service you do your child by fostering a relationship with their grandparents. Research has proven that grandparents have a positive effect in children's lives, from both providing emotional support to being a playmate in ways parents often don't have time for.

Despite the possible benefits, not every grandparent-grandchild or even grandparent-child relationship will be perfect. And even if we adore them and know they love us and our children, our parents and in-laws will eventually annoy us. It's human nature: People bug each other.

Jill Spiegel, author of How to Talk to Anybody About Anything , says: "All relationships have the potential for both love and conflict. They're here to help us grow." When emotions run high, as they tend to between parents, kids, and grandkids, those tiffs are amplified, says Amita K. Patel, a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist in New York City. "When kids come into the picture, it's a big role change not only for new parents but for new grandparents as well," she adds. "They may see that their view of themselves as parenting experts may not be universally accepted by their children."

To help make the most of this crucial relationship, we asked experts and seasoned parents to identify six common grandparent behaviors that wear on families, and to offer loving strategies for working through them.

1. The Line Crosser

This style may be the most frequent complaint parents levy against their parents or in-laws—that they assert their opinion when it hasn't been solicited, come around too much, or even seem to covet the primary position in their child's life. Take it from a mom who asked that her location not be named: "My husband and I recently found a perfect daycare, and my mother-in-law lost her mind because we didn't get her opinion first."

How to deal:

Spiegel says that "disagreements develop when a grandparent feels, incorrectly, that they have ownership of the situation. "It makes sense: For years, they were responsible for your well-being, and realizing they are no longer your decision maker can be difficult. Says Bethany Cook, Psy.D., a family systems–oriented therapist in Chicago, "Even when you're grown up, the same dynamics you've had with your parents all your life tend to continue. If they were overbearing parents, they will likely be overbearing grandparents."

You may be able to quell the overstepping by including the grandparent in ways that feel comfortable. "If they're calling constantly or barging in, try thinking, 'She wants to feel that we love her and that she's a participant in our lives,'" Spiegel suggests. "You can say, 'It makes us feel good that you're thinking of us. We're not available to answer the phone all the time, so let's set a time to talk.'" However you address the problem, a boundary must be drawn. "A kid needs to know who is in charge in order to feel safe," Dr. Cook says. "If they're getting one message from Mom and a different one from Grandma, it can be not just confusing but destabilizing."

2. The Snide Sniper

The idea that if one has nothing nice to say, they shouldn't say anything? These folks never got the memo. Their barbs (micro-insults, sour comments) can induce resentment, rage, and exhaustion—being constantly criticized takes a toll. In some cases, the wounds are literal: Says a mom in Portland, Oregon, whose in-laws visited just after she gave birth, "My mother-in-law chastised me for not covering up while breastfeeding in my own house, then suggested a walk outside. She complained that I was moving too slow, so I walked faster and ripped open my vaginal stitches."

It's likely that your critical parent or in-law isn't cruel so much as clueless, Spiegel says; most prod from a place of love. Says an Omaha mom, "My mother-in-law sneered at our daughter's name because it was 'hard to pronounce.' For the record, the name is Felicity." But maybe the mother-in-law worries people will find the name too unusual, and the child will be teased. That doesn't excuse the behavior but may explain it. "This often happens when a grandparent has a beef with your choices but lacks the self-esteem to say so," says Dr. Cook. "It may be a way of registering contempt without the risk of being direct."

Patel suggests asking the parent to speak plainly. "When you're hit with a passive-aggressive jab, respond with, 'Can you clarify what you're trying to say?' This may create space for them to feel safe talking to you." And take a moment to ask yourself: "Is this actually an insult, or does it just bug me because it's my parent saying it?" Or, as Patel says, "Remember, assumptions rarely repair. They only further what's not working."

3. The Scorekeeper

For some, comparing their share to others' is an obsession. When what's perceived to be at stake is a grandchild's love, the tally keeper's efforts can escalate. One Queens, New York, mom says, "Because we only saw family outdoors then, last fall we suggested to my in-laws that we have a backyard Thanksgiving meal the Saturday before the holiday since the weather would be nice. My mother-in-law assumed it was that day because we were seeing my parents for the 'real' holiday—we weren't—and launched into an itemized list of 16-plus years' worth of times she felt we'd chosen my parents over her. Her tally was way off."

Try to show the "cheated" person all the ways they're winning, Spiegel says. "This is about insecurity. So focus on their starring role in the child's life: 'You're the only ones who've taken her apple picking, and she loved it!' Help them feel they're uniquely loved. You can also have all the grandparents for dinner; it's harder to compete with someone if you see that you're all on the same team."

The key is to consider the feelings at play and speak to them, Patel says. "I'd advise parents to ask themselves, 'Am I fighting to fix this or to win?' If you're trying to prove their count is off or that they don't get to dictate who you see, step back and let your emotional temperature decrease. Then let them express their feelings, and tell them they're valued family members. That's what they're longing to hear." Dr. Cook agrees: "Often, what they really want isn't for things to be 'equal' but to have more of something they feel they're missing out on. So ask them: 'Is it more sleepovers you want? More FaceTime chats?' Try to get to the root of what's really troubling them."

4. The Questionable Advice Giver

Parents love, even live, to give their kids advice. A reminder to floss is fine, but if the tips border on the bizarre or even the potentially harmful ("Boys can't wear purple!" "Feed her rice cereal or she'll never sleep at night!") and are offered too insistently, taking them with a grain of salt can be tough.

"You can say, 'I'm going to make a mental note on that,'" Spiegel says. "Validating them goes a long way." If the input feels like an insinuation of your incompetence, you could say, "It would mean a lot if you could let us know that you believe in us." The hope is that they'll hear this and grasp that they've been giving this advice without realizing how it sounded, Spiegel says.

And if they don't respect your parenting? Then, says Patel, "it's time to set a boundary. Express your feelings without accusing: 'When you question how I do this, I feel frustrated' is more effective than 'Ugh, you're so out of touch.'" Dr. Cook says that for some grandparents, your disagreeing with them about how to parent can feel like a personal affront, "like you're tacitly criticizing what they did as parents. Speaking to that can help. You might say, 'I'm taking what you did and building on it. It's not about you; I'm just trying to do a good job as a parent.'"

Meanwhile, a Los Angeles mom found her own solution. "Whenever my toddler cries or whines on FaceTime," she says, "my mother goes into her One True Way to quiet babies and toddlers, which is to mimic them. She'll pretend to cry back at my son: ' Waaah waaah waaah, I want to climb on the table!' It drives me up the wall. So now I mute her and do my own parenting while she has a fake tantrum."

5. The Hazard

Whether they're distractible, a tad too rough, or rusty on the ways of littles, some grandparents are just not great at caring for young kids. Another mom in Los Angeles says, "When our son was born, my mom visited and nearly burned our place down by putting damp towels in the oven to dry them. When he was a year old, we all went on a trip. As my husband and I packed, she babysat. She wandered off, and our son crawled to the edge of the stairs and almost went over."

Dr. Cook doesn't mince words: "You're not obligated to have your kids around dangerous people, regardless of their title." If you're dealing with, say, a grandpa who roughhouses too vigorously for your liking, Spiegel also advises disengagement, even if just temporarily. "You might say,' Ava loves it when you visit, but I'm concerned about the wrestling, so I'd love it if you could leave that out.' If they resist, you can say, 'Well, I appreciate that it works for you, but it doesn't work for me. So let's take a month off, and we can think on it and see if we can compromise.'"

5. The Absentee Ancestor

The above examples share a theme: involvement. (Too much, in some cases.) But some grandparents don't center their grandkids in their lives the way you might hope for or expect. One Brooklyn, New York, mom says, "My dad hasn't met my 1-year-old daughter, though he lives an hour away—he's wrapped up in his own life and doesn't seem interested, and it makes me sad." That's an extreme example; more common is a grandparent ensconced in a life of travel, socializing, and quiet time, who loves their grandkid but doesn't live to dote on them.

Examine your expectations. Are you mistaking their independent life for indifference to your child? Remember that your parents did their child rearing already and may not be keen on a repeat performance. It can be a tough pill to swallow when you see other grandmas sitting front row at the dance recital, but you may need to shift your perspective. Says Dr. Cook, "We tend to think of grandparents as soft, cuddly, making cookies. But they're just people. We ask for trouble when we project impossible things onto them."

What's the best way to find out how your parents or in-laws feel about this whole grandparent thing? Talk to them about how they envision the relationship unfolding, Patel says. "Ask what would help them feel fulfilled by the connection but would also allow them to live their own lives." You may not get the answer you want, but at least the truth will be out in the open. "For some, being heavily involved with grandkids just isn't their thing," Spiegel says. "You can let your kid know it's not a reflection on them: 'I know she loves you, and we'll give her a call now and then.'"

And remember, Dr. Cook says, there are willing replacements out there. "If you're open to it, I guarantee there is someone terrific in your area who wishes they were closer to their own grandkids and would love to love on your kids."

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Visiting Relatives: IELTS Speaking Part 1 Sample Answer

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1 do you often visit your relatives.

Yes, I do! I used to find it boring when I was younger, but now that I’m older, I cherish (enjoy/value) the time I have with my relatives. I plan to see different relatives every Sunday.

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2 What do you do when you visit them?

We usually keep it pretty simple. We tend to have a meal at one of our houses or just sit in the living room and talk. From time to time, we decide to go out to eat or to do something else, like maybe the cinema or the park.

3 When did you last visit relatives? what did you do?

Just this morning actually! I went over to bring my grandparents lunch, since they aren’t very mobile anymore. We ate chicken salad, then I helped them pay their bills online, and chatted.

4 Do you prefer visiting your relatives, or your friends?

I like both for different reasons. I would say I probably enjoy seeing my friends more because it’s a time to de-stress and have fun, whereas seeing family involves more stress and judgment. However, I think family is more important.

5 Do you take anything when you visit your relatives?

Of course! I always try to bring some flowers or some sort of contribution to the meal, as I’m not one who likes to show up empty-handed (with nothing).  I especially like to bring something to my relatives after a vacation, like a souvenir- such a keychain, magnet, or T-shirt.

6 Is it important to visit family members?

Absolutely. They are the ones who are there for you when no one else is. I believe we are nothing without family.

• Cherish: enjoy/value Eg: I cherish my childhood photographs.
• Empty handed: with nothing Eg: Her father came empty handed from the office
• Contribution : a gift or payment to a common fund or collection  Eg: There was no contribution to the party
• De-stress: to release body or mental tension Eg: This is a chance to de-stress your mind.
• Souvenir: something kept as reminder Eg: It has been a memorable souvenir of  lost happiness.
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A recent article from the New York Times addresses the "epidemic of loneliness" among the elderly. Their children have all grown up and moved out. Many have lost a spouse and subsequently live alone in their homes. This loneliness leads to depression which is detrimental to their physical and mental health. The problem with this is that the elderly need not be lonely.

The elderly want their children and their grandchildren to visit them. Seeing their family and playing with their grandchildren brings smiles to their faces. They love nothing more than visiting with their children, hearing about their lives, and telling stories together. So why don't we visit them?

If it's been a long time since you've visited your grandparents, here are six things that should motivate you to get in your car and go see them as soon as possible.

1. It will brighten their day and yours

Nothing makes your grandparents happier than when their children and grandchildren come for a (surprise) visit. Grandmas loves to spoil their grandchildren and grandpas love to show their grandchildren where all the fun toys are. The presence of family and children brings light and life into their home and they feel whole again. It dispels the loneliness of their home, if only for a short while, but it's just enough that they know they aren't truly alone.

2. Most of the time they have cookies

Growing up, there wasn't a time when I went to my Grandma's house that there weren't cookies in the cookie jar or Creamies in the freezer. Grandparents almost always have a stash of cookies or candy somewhere to give to their grandchildren when they come to visit (and their children, if they're good enough.) Grandparents love to spoil their grandchildren and keeping a full cookie jar is just an excuse for them to come around more often.

3. You will learn a lot about life

Your grandparents have lived a long life. They've seen and done a lot of things. They know (perhaps more than your parents) exactly what you are going through, despite generational differences. It's easy to think that your grandparents don't know as much as you do, because you are more versed in the language of technology than they are. That simply isn't true. Though technology may not be the easiest for them to learn, they know much more about life's experience than you realize.

From their experiences alone, they will be able to tell you practically all you need to know about life. If you need advice, they will have the best advice to give 100% of the time. They are the wisest humans on the planet. Take advantage of the knowledge they have to give and listen to them and learn.

4. They have lots of stories to tell

Because of their life experiences, your grandparents' have a library full of stories to tell. Most are memories, some faded, others clear as day, but those memories are stories they love to tell. Their children and grandchildren are their favorite audience. Nothing makes them happier than sharing stories from their childhood, adolescence, young adulthood and adulthood. Be it stories of their favorite schoolyard activities, time serving in the war or how they met their spouse, these stories bring them happiness - especially when someone is willing to listen. Even if they're stories you've heard before, memories come and go, so you may be surprised to learn a little something new.

5. Record their stories for future generations

The most important thing we can do to preserve our grandparents' stories is to write them down and record them. Family history and genealogy work is becoming increasingly easier to do thanks to technology. As your grandparents get older, their memory fades faster. Take the time to sit with them and record their stories so they can be preserved forever. When your grandparents have long since passed, these stories will be readily available for their children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, so they can learn about their ancestors. Nothing is more exciting than reading and learning about your grandparents and ancestors and the real life stories and experiences they had when they were living.

6. These are moments you will never replace

Before you know it, your grandparents will be gone. One day I decided to make a spur of the moment weekend trip with my dad to visit my grandma and grandpa, so I could talk with them about their ancestors and do some genealogy work. Little did I know that a month later, my grandma's health would fail and she would subsequently pass away. I cherish those last moments I had to visit with her, because I was able to learn more about her and record some of her family history.

Take advantage of the time you have and visit your grandparents. It will only make their day a little bit brighter and they'll feel a little less lonely. They'll also be able to spoil you and your kids, and who doesn't love a day of being spoiled? Be it a phone call if you live far away, a quick visit or a surprise trip with your whole family, make time to see your grandparents. They need you more than you think.

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1.How big is your family?

There are three of us at home. You know, because of the one-child policy my parents were entitled to only one kid. Occasionally my grandmother comes and stays with us. If you are asking about my extended family, I have many uncles, aunts and cousins. But as for my immediate family, just my parents, I have no siblings.

There are four of us at home. I live with my parents, and I also have an elder brother. My brother’s going to turn 21 pretty soon. I am still in high school so I get to stay with my folks (= my parents), but my brother has been studying at college in Wuhan for the last three years.

2.Can you tell me something about your family members?

Okay, no problem. My mother is a very considerate and thoughtful person. She works as a math teacher in middle school, so she has always been able to help me with my homework. She’s generous and very kind-hearted. My father on the other hand is a businessman. He set up his own company a long time ago. They manufacture (= produce) shoes, and export all over the world. I don’t get to see my father very often. He’s often away on business. But we often call each other. He’s a hard-working and responsible man. He would do anything for my family. I told you I also have a brother. He is a college student. He’s a firn guy to be with. He’s enthusiastic and always optimistic. He likes to laugh and enjoy life.

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I don’t often get to see my parents because my university is far away from my hometown. I don*t often get to speak English because I don*t know any foreigners (= laowai!) in Fuzhou. During the holiday, my younger brother usually gets to play computer games whenever he wants.

3.What kind of work do members of your family do?

BE PRECISE! It’s  a great chance to show your vocabulary: DON’T BE BORING!

My Dad is a businessman 一 What kind of business? Since when? Is he busy? His salary?

My mother is a nurse — Does she like her job? What makes her a good nurse? (considerate, patient…)

My mother is a doctor — What’s her specialty (pediatrician, gynecologist, cardiologist, psychiatrist…)?

4.How much time do you manage to spend with family and relatives?

I only get to see my parents on the weekend, because from Monday to Friday I stay on campus at university. My college is located in the suburbs of my city. It’s like 45 minutes away from my home. I usually get home on Friday night. On the weekend we (my parents and I) have a big dinner together. It’s a good chance for us to catch up. We frequently watch TV together, and occasionally we go for a walk.

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• in my university”
• in my school”
• in my high school”

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• at university
• in high school

I only get to see my parents twice a year because my university is located in Sichuan Province, far away from my hometown. It’s a four-hour flight. I come home for Spring Festival, you know, Chinese New Year, and during the summer holiday. Otherwise my parents often call me, and I try to send them emails as often as possible.

5.Do you get on well with your family?

Yes, we get on pretty well. Of course, we occasionally disagree and fight (= quarrel), but my parents are quite open-minded and relaxed. They always support me and encourage me. You know, I plan to go overseas next year, and they will pay for my studies. They are extremely helpful, and I consider myself very lucky to have such parents. One of my classmates has big issues with his parents. He says there*s a huge generation gap between him and his folks. At least I don’t have to worry about that. My parents always listen to what I have to say.

6.What sorts of things do you like to do together?

Well, we frequently have dinner together. You know, in China, food is an important aspect of our culture. Meals on the weekend are a great chance for all of us to chat and catch up with each other. In addition, we often watch TV, especially the NBA on Sunday morning with my Dad. We are both big basketball fans. We support different teams, and sometimes we make some bets on the games. Occasionally the three of us go for a walk or go shopping. We used to go to the cinema a lot, but now that I am in college, we have less time to do that.

7.Did you have a lot of contact with your grandparents when you were  a child?

Yes, when I was a child I used to see my grandparents on a daily basis, because they used to live with us. I guess that when I was very young, my parents needed someone to look after me since they were both busy with their job. My grandpa passed away a few years ago, and my grandma is our neighbor now. My Dad bought the apartment next door for her to be with us whenever she feels like it.

8.Is it common for grandparents to live with their children and grandchildren in your country?

Yes, definitely. It’s very common. In China, children take it as their responsibility to look after their parents when they get old. In addition, nowadays, because both parents often work, grandparents can lend a hand when it comes to raising the kid in the family. Hiring a nanny costs money, and putting a child in a day-care center is not that popular (= so popular) here.

9.What part do grandparents play in family life in your culture?

As I told you, grandparents are very important in my culture. The whole family listens to and respects the grandparents 5  point of view. They are like the wise people in the house. In addition, these days, they play a major role in the family, because they very often get to raise the child when both parents are working.

10.How can grandchildren benefit from knowing their grandparents?

It’s your turn to answer!

(Children can learn from experienced grandparents + increase respect for elderly people + traditions)

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The Coronavirus Crisis

Taking a trip to visit grandparents or older relatives tips to reduce the risk.

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One of the hardest things during this pandemic — for kids and adult children — has been staying away from their parents and grandparents.

People 65 years and older are at higher risk for getting a severe case of COVID-19, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. And about 80% of deaths in the U.S. from COVID-19 have been in people older than 65.

So it's been especially important for older people to practice social distancing — even from family members — to reduce the risk of infection.

But the summer is here, communities are reopening and with many families living miles apart, a trip to see parents and grandparents is tempting. Here are some things to consider before you go.

Assess the risk

Remember, the risk of becoming severely ill with COIVID-19 increases with age, says Dr. Ravina Kullar , an epidemiologist and spokesperson for the I nfectious Disease Society of America. So the older the parent or grandparent, the higher the risk. And if your relative has an underlying health condition , like diabetes, lung disease, hypertension, or if they are immunosuppressed, "that puts them at even higher risk," Kullar says. So before the visit, assess the age and health of the person you are visiting — and consider whether the trip is worth the risk.

Plan ahead, by two weeks

If you decide to make the trip, the two weeks leading up to the visit are key, says Dr. William Miller , an epidemiologist at Ohio State University College of Public Health. You want to reduce your chance of infection as much as possible. While complete quarantine may not be practical, limit outings or social gatherings, and take maximum precautions when going out. Practice social distancing, wear a mask, and work from home if possible, to reduce your chances of getting infected. Complete quarantine would mean staying entirely home except for necessary medical care.

Another factor to consider is what the infection rates are where you live, says Kullar. You have more risk of infection if you live in a place which is reporting a lot of new cases every day, than if you live in an area where no cases have been reported for several weeks. You can use NPR's coronavirus tracker to find out how many cases there are in your state.

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To find detailed information about your county, check your state's health department web site — many states publish county-level data, or look up your area in a national tracker like the Dartmouth Atlas of Health Care.

If you can, make it a road trip

Traveling by car will be safer than traveling by plane or train, Miller says. The main risks in a road trip are the stops along the way, such as restaurants or public restrooms.

"I would recommend you do anything you can to limit your exposure," Kullar says. "If you have to fill up the gas tank, put gloves on and use hand sanitizer. Pack your own food so there are no additional stops at restaurants."

The main risk from restrooms are from those that are small, busy and poorly ventilated — like "those restrooms in a gas station off the highway where the restroom is outside," Miller says. Try to choose a bathroom that looks clean and is well stocked with supplies. Avoid bunching up in a line, or staying in the restroom long, if you are within 6 feet of others. Wear a mask, wash your hands after you go, and use hand sanitizer if you touch any surfaces after that.

If it's a long trip and you need to stay overnight in a hotel, "make sure you sanitize everything," Kullar says. Take disinfectant, wipe down surfaces, limit time spent in indoor public spaces and wear a mask.

Think twice before you fly

"Planes are a major concern," Miller says, despite the high level of air filtration on most planes. In planes you are exposed to people several rows ahead and behind, for an extended period of time. It can also be hard to social distance as you navigate the airports. Trains and buses likely have similar exposure, Miller says.

If you do take a plane, bus or train, "choose routes that are less populous," says Dr. Emily Landon , a hospital epidemiologist and infectious diseases specialist at University of Chicago Medicine. "Make sure you are wearing a mask and using hand hygiene," she says. And look for an airline, train or bus company that is enforcing rules like universal masking.

If you do fly, or take public transportation, you need to quarantine on arrival, Miller says. Stay in a hotel or rental, and socially distance for 10 to 14 days, before visiting your parents or grandparents. "This means a true quarantine — no visits to theme parks, museums or restaurants," Miller says.

Should you get tested?

Kullar suggests getting a PCR test before you travel. That's the diagnostic test to determine if you are infected with the virus that causes COVID-19. People who are asymptomatic or presymptomatic can spread the virus, without even knowing they are infected. If your test is positive you should cancel your trip and quarantine yourself for 14 days and get retested. Also, it is important to tell anyone that you have been around of your positive test result, Kullar says.

But if your test is negative, you still need to take precautions. Tests are not always accurate . According to the CDC, it's possible you could still have COVID-19, even if your test result is negative.

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"It's important to remember testing is not perfect ," Miller says. "A test is a snapshot in that moment." If the test is taken too early after infection, there may not be enough virus present to be detected by a test.

So if you do get a negative test before you travel, you must still make sure you've put in two weeks of strict social distancing before the visit.

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Where should you stay?

Given that many people won't be able to fully quarantine, you want to be really careful, "get an Airbnb" or a hotel room, advises Kullar, and just drop by and visit. "Sit outside, greet without touching. Keep your distance. Wear a mask and stay outdoors," she says. "Transmission is a much lower probability outside, as long as you are keeping a good 6 feet distance apart, thanks to the constant airflow," she adds.

If you've been able to quarantine for 14 days, it's reasonable to stay with your older relatives in their home. But, remember, you need to remain vigilant. "Your risk is tied to the risk of the people that you spend time with up close and unmasked," Landon says.

So once you've arrived where your older relatives live, "you want to keep your bubble intact," Miller says. You may want to limit any other social contacts during the visit and just focus on quality time with the grandparents or a few close relatives. Anybody that you are going to hang out with up close and without your mask, especially indoors, could potentially spread the virus. So, keep the circle small, and expand it only with people who have been practicing social distancing and taking precautions.

And if you're adding more people to the mix for a gathering, it's best if you can stay outdoors, and tell everyone to BYOB — and BYO-everything (bring your own everything) to limit the touching of shared surfaces.

Limit activities when you get there

What you do during the visit also matters. Avoid crowds, and stick to outdoor activities as much as possible.

"Don't go out to theme parks and museums [or other crowded places], even if the grandparents don't go along," Miller says. That's because most transmissions of the virus are thought to happen in household settings. So if you get exposed outside the home you could bring that home and infect your relatives.

"If you're sharing the house, everything you do is shared with the elderly folks," Miller says.

If you are taking young children to visit their grandparents, talk to them before you go, advises Kullar, tell them why it's not a good idea to hug their grandmother or grandfather. "Really have a solid discussion with them about that because they may have trouble adhering to the social distancing measures." Miller agrees: "Limit hugs and close contact, unless you have done a full quarantine" — which means not leaving the house for anything except necessary medical care.

Consider staying home

Unless, you can rigorously follow all the guidelines above, it may be that the best way to be really safe is to forego the family visit this year and stay home, Miller says. Find creative ways to engage with your parents or grandparents by phone or video. Play games by video, read books together, watch a movie at the same time.

"This is a time to embrace some virtual tools," Kullar says, to make sure your loved one doesn't feel socially isolated. She lives in Los Angeles, her mother in North Carolina, so they meet for morning coffee using face time and have dinner together maybe once a week.

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7 Tips For Traveling to Visit Grandparents

This is the week that many schools, daycare centers and greeting card companies celebrate National Grandparents Day. Technically, Grandparents Day in the United States was on Sept. 9 — but it's definitely not too late to celebrate the grandmas and grandpas in your life.

In my experience, the best way to do that is to visit and spend time with them. If you live down the street from the grandparents in your family, that may be a simple enough process. If you have to travel to visit your child's grandparents, however, there are a few ways to make the visit even better for everyone in the family.

1. FaceTime between visits

Nothing replaces in-person time together with family. But FaceTime and similar services can certainly help close the gaps. Some regular 'FaceTiming' with grandparents is a great way to stay connected and ensure that your time together starts right where you left off.

2. Book your own hotel

If I could only share one tip for traveling to visit grandparents, it would be to book your own hotel room nearby rather than expecting Grandma and Grandpa to host everyone in their home. While there are exceptions to every rule, most people do better with their own space. Grandparents put all their energy into maximizing time with their grandkids during the day, so let them have their own space to recharge at night.

Along the same lines, visiting family can be as tiring as it is exciting, so having your own bed, shower and quiet space is worth the points (or cash) investment, so increase those point balances if you need to and make the reservation. This is especially true if the grandparents' house has limited space, or your visit is for longer than two nights.

And when grandparents travel to visit us, we like to book them a hotel nearby for all the same reasons.

3. Let the grandparents plan activities

If Grandma and Grandpa have things they want your family to do while visiting, leave time to accommodate those specific activities. They may have waited a long time to have your family experience certain attractions and their favorite place to eat. They may even want the grandkids to meet their friends. If a suggested activity sounds like a really poor match for your family, voice your concerns. Otherwise, let them be your local tour guide as much as they want.

4. Get out of the way

If the grandparents want to take an active role with the grandkids for a few days: let them. Over the years, we've found that having two grandparents and two parents involved in all the daily tasks and activities is just too many cooks in the kitchen.

Personally, my husband and I like to have a couple days with everyone together, and then duck out for a short trip while the grandparents have the grandkids to themselves. (This works great if visiting the grandparents is a stopover on the way to somewhere else). If that isn't feasible, still try and stay out of the way as much as possible so Grandma and Grandpa can enjoy quality time the grandkids.

Of course, if your children are babies or very young and do best with a consistent routine — or if you have concerns about the grandparents' ability to safely keep up with your toddler — don't get out of the way completely.

5. Take professional pictures

Multi-generational time together is special, so take a few photos. Or a lot. Photos taken with your phone may be sufficient, but don't be afraid to invest in a professional photographer every once in a while (or at least a pro-quality camera) if you want to capture high-quality shots with everyone. It may be a pain to take photos in the moment, but you'll be very glad you have them down the road.

6. Don't overstay your welcome

The amount of time every family can — or wants to — spend together certainly varies. But in general, try not to overstay your welcome. Our family vastly prefers multiple, shorter visits with grandparents rather than one very long visit. By the third or fourth day, almost everyone starts to get run down. If you have a longer visit planned, that third or fourth day may be a good time for everyone to do their own thing and recharge.

Taking two independently functioning family units and combining them into one big mass isn't always simple, and it's OK to know your limits and keep visits short and sweet. Everyone is better off with a shorter period of time that goes well, rather than a longer period of time marked by family-fatigue.

7. Make plans to visit again

Saying goodbye is usually easier if there are at least rough plans for the next visit. You don't have to have actual reservations in place, but start the discussion about when and where the next visit should take place.

My family likes to alternate where we visit grandparents so that one family isn't always doing the traveling (or hosting). In fact, one of our favorite ways to visit with grandparents is to meet up somewhere fun, so that no one is hosting and everyone has exciting things to do and explore together. Regardless of where you meet, start that conversation now, so that goodbye isn't goodbye: it's see you next time.

Images by Andrea Bacle Photography.

How Often Should Grandparents See Their Grandchildren

The importance of grandparent-grandchild relationships.

Grandparent-grandchild relationships play a significant role in the lives of both the grandparents and the grandchildren. These relationships offer numerous benefits and are influenced by various factors.

The Benefits of Grandparent Visitation

Regular grandparent visitation can have a profound impact on the overall well-being and development of grandchildren. Some benefits of grandparent-grandchild interactions include:

• Emotional support: Grandparents provide a unique source of love, affection, and emotional support to their grandchildren. This support contributes to the child's sense of security and emotional resilience.
• Wisdom and guidance: Grandparents often have a wealth of life experiences and knowledge to share. They can offer guidance, advice, and a different perspective on various aspects of life, helping grandchildren navigate challenges and make informed decisions.
• Intergenerational connection: Grandparent-grandchild relationships foster a strong sense of connection between different generations. This connection helps grandchildren develop a deeper understanding and appreciation of their family history, traditions, and cultural heritage.
• Role models: Grandparents can serve as positive role models for their grandchildren, demonstrating important values, ethics, and life skills through their actions and behaviors.
• Enhanced social skills: Interacting with their grandparents allows grandchildren to develop important social skills such as empathy, communication, and respect for older adults.

For more information on the benefits of frequent grandparent-grandchild interactions, refer to their article on benefits of frequent grandparent-grandchild interactions .

Factors Affecting Grandparent-Grandchild Relationships

Several factors can influence the dynamics of grandparent-grandchild relationships. These factors include:

• Proximity and availability: The geographic distance between grandparents and grandchildren can impact the frequency of visitation. Long distances may limit in-person interactions, but technology can play a crucial role in bridging the gap. Check out their article on long-distance grandparenting tips for helpful suggestions.
• Family dynamics and relationships: The quality of relationships within the family unit, including the relationship between parents and grandparents, can influence grandparent-grandchild interactions. Open and respectful communication among all family members is vital for maintaining healthy relationships.
• Cultural and personal preferences: Cultural values and personal preferences can shape the expectations and frequency of grandparent visitation. Some families may prioritize frequent contact, while others may have different cultural norms or individual preferences.

It's important to recognize that every grandparent-grandchild relationship is unique. Factors such as the age of the grandchild, family dynamics, and cultural considerations should be taken into account when determining the frequency of grandparent visitation. By maintaining open and honest communication, respecting boundaries, and considering the needs of both grandparents and parents, families can create visitation schedules that promote healthy and meaningful relationships. For tips on setting boundaries during grandparent-grandchild visits, refer to their article on setting boundaries for grandparent-grandchild visits .

Determining Visitation Frequency

When it comes to determining how often grandparents should see their grandchildren, several factors come into play. Communication and agreement between the grandparents and parents, considerations for distance and availability, and balancing the needs of both parties are all important aspects to consider.

Communication and Agreement

Open and honest communication between grandparents and parents is essential in determining the frequency of grandparent visitation. It is crucial for both parties to express their desires, concerns, and expectations. By engaging in a constructive dialogue, they can work towards finding a visitation schedule that suits everyone's needs and promotes a healthy grandparent-grandchild relationship.

Considerations for Distance and Availability

Distance plays a significant role in determining the frequency of grandparent visits. If grandparents live nearby, it may be more feasible for them to have regular face-to-face interactions with their grandchildren. On the other hand, if they live far apart, visits may be less frequent but potentially longer in duration.

In cases where distance poses a challenge, technology can be a valuable tool for maintaining regular contact. Video calls, emails, and instant messaging can help bridge the distance gap and allow grandparents to stay connected with their grandchildren.

Balancing the Needs of Grandparents and Parents

Establishing a balance between the needs of grandparents and parents is crucial in determining visitation frequency. While grandparents may have a strong desire to see their grandchildren frequently, it is essential to respect the boundaries and preferences of the parents.

Factors such as the parents' work schedules, the child's routine, and the overall family dynamics should be taken into consideration. A collaborative approach that considers the best interests of the child is vital for maintaining a healthy grandparent-grandchild relationship.

By considering communication and agreement, distance and availability, and balancing the needs of grandparents and parents, families can work together to determine a visitation frequency that promotes strong and positive relationships between grandparents and grandchildren. Remember, setting boundaries and being flexible are key elements in ensuring a harmonious arrangement.

Legal Considerations

When determining the frequency of grandparent-grandchild visitation, it's essential to consider the legal aspects that govern these relationships. Laws regarding grandparent visitation rights can vary depending on the jurisdiction. Understanding the legal landscape can help guide families in establishing visitation arrangements that are fair and appropriate for all parties involved.

Grandparent Visitation Laws

Grandparent visitation laws differ from state to state and country to country. Some jurisdictions have specific statutes that grant grandparents the right to request visitation with their grandchildren. These laws are typically designed to protect the best interests of the child and maintain meaningful relationships between grandparents and grandchildren.

To navigate the legal framework surrounding grandparent visitation, it is advisable to consult with a family law attorney familiar with the laws in your jurisdiction. They can provide guidance on the specific laws and regulations governing grandparent visitation in your area.

Custody and Visitation Arrangements

In situations where parents are divorced, separated, or going through a custody battle, visitation arrangements may be addressed as part of the overall custody agreement. These arrangements outline the time and frequency of visits between grandparents and grandchildren.

The custody agreement may grant grandparents specific visitation rights or require them to seek court approval for visitation. The terms of visitation can vary widely, taking into account various factors such as the child's best interests, the relationship between the child and the grandparents, and the overall family dynamics.

Working with a family law attorney can help grandparents navigate the complexities of custody and visitation arrangements. They can provide advice and assistance in negotiating visitation schedules that prioritize the child's well-being while considering the rights and wishes of the grandparents.

Understanding the legal considerations surrounding grandparent visitation is crucial for both grandparents and parents. By familiarizing themselves with the applicable laws and working within the legal framework, families can establish visitation arrangements that are fair and promote the best interests of the child.

As grandparents and parents work towards finding the right visitation frequency, it's important to consider other factors such as the age of the grandchild, family dynamics, and personal preferences. These factors, along with legal considerations, can help guide families in creating a visitation schedule that ensures meaningful and positive interactions between grandparents and grandchildren.

Factors to Consider

Determining how often grandparents should see their grandchildren involves taking various factors into account. While there is no one-size-fits-all answer, considering these factors can help guide the decision-making process.

Age of the Grandchild

The age of the grandchild is an important factor when determining the frequency of grandparent visits. Younger children, especially infants and toddlers, may benefit from more frequent visits as they form attachments and bonds with their grandparents. Regular interactions during the early years can contribute to the development of a strong grandparent-grandchild relationship.

As children grow older, their needs and interests change. School-aged children and teenagers may have busier schedules due to academics, extracurricular activities, and social commitments. In these cases, visits may be less frequent but can still hold significant value in maintaining a meaningful connection. Consider the age of the grandchild and their unique developmental stage when deciding on visitation frequency.

Family Dynamics and Relationships

Family dynamics play a role in determining how often grandparents should see their grandchildren. The nature of the relationship between the grandparents, parents, and grandchildren can influence the desired frequency of visits. Open and healthy communication between all parties involved is essential in understanding and respecting each other's needs and preferences.

Some families may have a closer bond and prefer more frequent visits, while others may have geographical or emotional distances that impact visitation frequency. It's important to take into account the preferences and comfort levels of all family members involved, ensuring that the visitation schedule aligns with the overall harmony and dynamics of the family.

Cultural and Personal Preferences

Cultural and personal preferences also play a role in determining the frequency of grandparent visits. Different cultures and traditions may have varying expectations and norms regarding family relationships and intergenerational connections. Some cultures emphasize frequent and close grandparent-grandchild interactions, while others may prioritize other aspects of family life.

Additionally, personal preferences and circumstances of the grandparents and parents can influence visitation frequency. Factors such as work schedules, health conditions, and other commitments may impact the availability of both grandparents and parents. It's important to consider and respect the individual preferences and limitations of all parties involved when determining the visitation schedule.

By considering the age of the grandchild, family dynamics and relationships, and cultural and personal preferences, a suitable visitation schedule can be established. Open and honest communication between all family members is key to fostering a harmonious and nurturing grandparent-grandchild relationship.

Creating a Visitation Schedule

When it comes to determining how often grandparents should see their grandchildren, creating a visitation schedule can provide structure and balance for everyone involved. Here are three key factors to consider when establishing a visitation schedule: open and honest communication, flexibility and adjustments, and respecting boundaries.

Open and Honest Communication

Open and honest communication is essential when creating a visitation schedule. Both grandparents and parents should openly express their desires, expectations, and concerns. This communication should focus on what is in the best interest of the child, taking into account factors such as the child's age, family dynamics, and the geographical distance between the grandparents and their grandchildren.

By engaging in open dialogue, grandparents and parents can work together to find common ground and establish a visitation schedule that accommodates everyone's needs. It is important to listen to each other's perspectives and be willing to compromise when necessary. 

Flexibility and Adjustments

Flexibility is key when it comes to visitation schedules. Life is unpredictable, and circumstances can change. Both grandparents and parents should be willing to make adjustments and be flexible with the agreed-upon schedule. This flexibility allows for unexpected events, such as family celebrations, vacations, or emergencies, without causing undue stress or conflict.

Regular check-ins and ongoing communication are essential to ensure the visitation schedule remains suitable for all parties involved. Being flexible and adaptable fosters a positive and cooperative relationship between grandparents and parents, promoting a healthy grandparent-grandchild bond. Remember, the ultimate goal is to create a schedule that provides consistent and meaningful interactions between grandparents and grandchildren.

Respecting Boundaries

Respecting boundaries is crucial in maintaining a healthy and harmonious relationship between grandparents and parents. Each family has unique dynamics and preferences, and it is essential to acknowledge and respect these differences. Clear communication and mutual understanding of boundaries help prevent misunderstandings and conflicts.

Boundaries can include factors such as the duration of visits, guidelines for overnight stays, involvement in parenting decisions, and adherence to household rules. Establishing and respecting these boundaries ensures that both grandparents and parents feel comfortable and secure in their roles.

By focusing on open communication, flexibility, and respecting boundaries, grandparents and parents can create a visitation schedule that works for everyone involved. This approach promotes a healthy and loving relationship between grandparents and grandchildren, allowing for regular and meaningful interactions that contribute to the overall well-being and happiness of the entire family.

Is there a minimum or maximum number of times grandparents should see their grandchildren?

There is no set amount of time that grandparents should spend with their grandchildren. It depends on the family's circumstances and what works best for everyone involved.

What if one set of grandparents sees the grandchildren more often than the other?

Unequal visitation can cause hurt feelings and tension between family members. It's essential to communicate openly and find a schedule that works for both sets of grandparents.

What if the grandparent-grandchild relationship is strained?

If there are underlying issues in the relationship, it may be necessary to address them before deciding on how often to visit. In some cases, it may be helpful to seek out family counseling or mediation to improve communication and resolve conflicts.

Can grandparents spoil their grandchildren by seeing them too much?

Spoiling a grandchild is not necessarily related to how often they see each other. It's up to the grandparents to establish appropriate boundaries and guidelines for behavior during visits.

How can parents encourage positive relationships between their children and their grandparents?

Parents can encourage positive relationships by making sure children know who their grandparents are, scheduling regular visits, encouraging communication, and emphasizing the importance of family relationships.

The frequency of grandparent-grandchild visits is a personal decision that depends on various factors. Some grandparents may see their grandchildren daily, while others may only see them a few times a year. Ultimately, the most important thing is that grandparents remain involved in their grandchildren's lives and offer support and guidance whenever possible.

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How to Find Out Who Your Great-Grandparents Were

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By The Findmypast Team | April 30, 2019

Can you name all eight of your great-grandparents? Do you know what they did for a living? How about where they lived? This simple guide will help you find out who your great-grandparents were, and give you an insight into what their lives may have been like.

First, make a list of your parents' and grandparents' names (including maiden names), their birthdates and birthplaces, and where and when they got married. If possible, ask your parents and grandparents to help fill the gaps. Don't worry, however, if you aren't able to gather much information. The wonders of modern technology should be able to help…

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Starting a Findmypast family tree is the best way to continue your family history journey. The family tree builder will ask pertinent questions about you, your parents and your grandparents. It doesn't matter if you don't have all the answers, the family tree builder will cross-reference birth and marriage records to come up with suggestions for you. After spending a few minutes using the family tree builder, you'll have a basic family tree.

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Now you have a family tree, it will automatically search records – everything from censuses to birth, marriage and death records – for mentions of your family members. If a match is found, an orange bubble will appear next to the relevant person. These are called hints . Click the hint, review the details listed in the hint and choose whether to add them to your family tree.

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Hints can help you go back multiple generations in no time. It's always useful, however, to ask extended family if they have any corroborating information. Your parents' cousins and their children will share some of the same ancestors as you and if you're really lucky someone in your extended family may have already unearthed information on your great-grandparents. Ask around and if one of your relatives has already done some work on the family tree, ask them if they wouldn't mind sharing!

Once you know the names of your great-grandparents, the fun really starts. Your great-grandparents could appear in all sorts of historical records that might reveal juicy bits of information about their lives, and maybe even give you an insight into the kind of people they were. Happy hunting!

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Arrival at grandparents’ house.

The journey to my grandparents’ house is always filled with anticipation. As we pull up to the familiar old house, my heart leaps with joy.

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Upon entering, the smell of my grandmother’s cooking fills the air. Their warm smiles and tight hugs make me feel loved and cherished.

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The journey.

The trip to my grandparents’ house always begins with a sense of nostalgia, a journey back in time. The city’s concrete jungle slowly gives way to open fields, the air becomes cleaner, and the noise of the city is replaced by the chirping of birds. It’s a transition from the fast-paced, technology-driven life to a simpler, more peaceful existence.

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On arrival, the old wooden gate creaks open, revealing the familiar rustic charm of the house. The structure, though old, stands tall, representing years of love and memories. The garden, my grandfather’s pride, is a riot of colors, with flowers blooming in every corner.

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My grandparents, despite their age, always greet us with an energetic welcome. Their faces light up with a warmth that fills the room. Their stories, filled with wisdom and humor, are the highlight of our visit. The tales of their youth, the struggles and triumphs, are lessons in resilience and perseverance.

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Leaving is always the hardest part. The house, once buzzing with activity, seems to sigh in the quiet. As we pack our bags, we carry with us not just souvenirs but also the wisdom and values imparted. The visit to my grandparents’ house is not just a break from routine, but a journey of self-discovery and connection with my roots.

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Visiting my grandparents’ house is always an enriching experience, filled with warmth, wisdom, and a sense of timeless tranquility. Nestled in the countryside, their abode is a haven away from the hustle and bustle of city life, a place where the clock seems to slow down and life takes on a different rhythm.

Stepping Back in Time

Arriving at my grandparents’ house is like stepping into a time capsule. The house, a charming old cottage, is adorned with relics from the past, each telling its own story. Antique furniture, black and white photographs, and vintage decor pieces transport me to a bygone era, offering a glimpse into the life and times of my ancestors.

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A visit to my grandparents’ house is more than just a break from routine. It’s a journey into the past, a communion with nature, a culinary adventure, and a treasure trove of wisdom. The memories I’ve made and the lessons I’ve learned there are invaluable. They’ve enriched my life and broadened my perspective, reminding me of the simple joys of life and the timeless wisdom of the older generation.

In the end, my grandparents’ house is not just a physical structure; it’s a living, breathing entity, filled with stories, wisdom, and love. It’s a place where I’ve grown, learned, and evolved. It’s a place I call home.

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36 Simple Activities to Do With Your Grandparents

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Often, it feels impossible to bridge the growing gaps between generations. For grandchildren hoping to gain a deeper understanding of and appreciation for their grandparents, where do you start? While there are a lot of amazing things to do in retirement , many of these are even better when shared with loved ones. 

You don’t have to do anything extravagant to spend time together. It’s all about appreciating the little things, whether you stay at home or explore nature by each other’s side. If you’re looking for inspiration, here are 21 simple activities to do with your grandparents. 

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Activities to do with your grandparents at home, activities to do with your grandparents outdoors, activities you can do with your grandparents on zoom, facetime, or video call, games to play with grandparents, things for teens or young adults to do with grandparents, things for toddlers or small children to do with grandparents.

As mentioned above, some of the best things to do with your grandparents can be done without even leaving the house. Enjoy these at-home activities anytime, and don’t be afraid to do them again and again. 

1. Explore your family history

Younger generations can learn a lot about the family’s history through their grandparents. These are the ones who remember great-grandparents, great-great-grandparents, and beyond. Create a family tree and talk about where your family came from. 

Tip for getting started: Explore genealogy websites and flip through family photos to gain even more perspective on your family history. 

2. Do arts and crafts

Arts and crafts are fun for all ages. No matter your skill level, there’s something fun you can make together. See if your grandparents have any existing crafting skills, and learn something from them in the process. 

Tip for getting started: Work together to build or create something new, like a painting, a knitted scarf, or a bookshelf. This is a precious memento you’ll cherish for years to come. 

3. Do a puzzle

Puzzles have earned a reputation as a “boring” activity, but they’re really anything but. Creating something together that takes a lot of skill and patience is a highly rewarding activity. While putting pieces together, chat about life and everything that crosses your mind. 

Tip for getting started: Once you’ve finished your puzzle, display it in a frame as a reminder of your time together. 

4. Learn a family recipe

Each family has their own spin on classic staples. If you’ve never learned the family’s famous pasta sauce, pie, or meatloaf, now is the time. Ask for some help in the kitchen and cook or bake up a storm with your grandparents. 

Tip for getting started: Have your loved one write down the ingredients and instructions so you can make this recipe for them later. 

5. Read together

Depending on your grandparent’s age, it might not make sense to read to them. However, books and stories bring us together. Reading a book together and talking about it regularly is a great way to think about what you’ve read and grow closer in the process. 

Tip for getting started: Create a family book club, meeting once a month or more to chat about your favorites. 

6. Host a movie day

You and your grandparents might have different movie tastes, but that just makes for an even better movie day. Host a movie day together to stream all of your favorites. Mix some oldies with the new hits. 

Tip for getting started: Switch off choosing the film so you each get to share some of your favorites. 

7. Make a scrapbook

A lot of people have extra photos laying around, but how often do you do anything with them? Taking some time with your grandparents to make a scrapbook is a great way to share your favorite memories with everyone. Choose paper, decorations, and photos together and make an activity of it. 

Tip for getting started: Journal together in the margins of the scrapbook, allowing your voices to shine alongside the photos. 

While your grandparents might not be up to the same activities they used to love, there are still great ways to bond with them outside. Nature has a way of bringing people together, so why not explore it together?

Gardening isn’t as complicated as it sounds, even if you don’t have a green thumb. Help them garden in their own backyard, putting together gorgeous flowers and edible plants. Before you know it, you’ll have a whole harvest. 

Tip for getting started: Start with something simple if you’ve never gardened before, like herbs or flowers. 

9. Hike somewhere new

Hiking is an easy way to get outside and enjoy the sunshine. Even if your grandparents aren’t up for a challenging experience, there are hikes nearby for all skill levels. Put on some hiking gear, pack some snacks, and hit the trails. 

Tip for getting started: Always check the difficulty level and length of the trail before getting started with your loved one. 

10. Travel together

If you really want to get to know someone, travel with them. Take them across the globe or somewhere closer to home. Either way, you’ll check something off their bucket list and experience new things together.

Tip for getting started: Choose a destination that’s suitable to their lifestyle and health level. 

11. Have a picnic

There’s something magical about eating outside. Sandwiches and snacks have never been so fun! Pack some of your favorite outdoor foods, a comfortable blanket, and head to the nearest park—or just your backyard. 

Tip for getting started: For a more “grown-up” picnic, bring some cheese and wine. 

12. Visit a farmers market

Farmers markets are popular places to visit on the weekends, and they help you feel closer to your community. Join with your grandparents for a morning spent at your local farmers market. Try local baked goods and catch up with each other. 

Tip for getting started: Gather some local ingredients to cook a meal together later that day. 

13. Go fishing

Fishing is a great activity for grandparents and grandkids. It offers a chance to sit in silence, enjoying nature. These are the small moments that really matter, even if you don’t catch anything. 

Tip for getting started: Bring chairs and snacks to make this experience more comfortable for all. 

14. Be local tourists

Another fun thing to do together to spark the adventurer within is to be a local tourist in your own city or town. Explore some of the more touristy things that you wouldn’t do, roam local parks, and enjoy a day together.

Tip for getting started: Check travel blogs to find off-the-beaten-path things to do together in your own town. You never know what you’ll stumble upon. 

Even if you can’t be with your grandparents in-person, you can still connect over Zoom, FaceTime, or Video Call. 

15. Happy hour

If you’re all of age, a happy hour is a great way to unwind together over video. You can easily serve up your own drinks, chat about your day, and enjoy this time together. Better yet, invite other family members in on the fun. 

Tip for getting started: Mix the same drinks so you feel even more connected. 

16. Play trivia

Trivia is always a fun game to play together, and it’s even possible over video chat. Pull out an old box of Trivial Pursuit or just find a trivia generator online. Take turns asking trivia questions to see who’s the most knowledgeable. 

Tip for getting started: Bring more friends and family into the game to add some extra fun.

17. Play Pictionary

Another great game to play over video chat is Pictionary. While there are integrations that work with Zoom and other software, you don’t need any fancy tools. A pen and paper will do, plus a little bit of creativity. 

Tip for getting started: Set a timer to get the competition going strong.

18. Visit a museum virtually

A number of the world’s best museums have virtual exhibits open to exploring digitally. While you might not be able to go to the Met in-person right now, you can still explore its many works together online. Click through your favorites and share this digital experience. 

Tip for getting started: Choose an exhibit to explore together, and take time to appreciate the photos and history.

19. Window shop online

Again, you might not be able to shop in-person, but you can still click through your favorite stores online. Whether you need a new wardrobe staple or kitchen gear, including your grandparents helps them feel involved in your life. 

Tip for getting started: Share your screen with them so they can easily “shop” with you.

20. Host a family meal

Eating together is one of the many things that bond families together. While you can’t share a meal together in the same place, you can still enjoy the conversations held over the dinner table. Cook your favorites, set up your camera gear, and chat the night away. 

Tip for getting started: Call your loved one during the start of the cooking process to really include them from start to finish. 

21. Coffee or tea date

Last but not least, it’s the simple things that we really remember. You don’t need any extravagant planning to create the perfect environment for your Zoom call. Just hosting a simple coffee or tea date to share updates over your favorite brew is a powerful thing. 

Tip for getting started: Plan some topics in advance to defeat those early-conversation jitters. These questions to ask grandparents are a great option. 

Grandparents also make great gamers! While they’re not likely to pick up a controller for a video game, they are pros at classic card and board games. These are fun ways to bring the whole family into the moment for some classic family fun. 

22. Word games

First, most grandparents have an endless vocabulary, some words of which might be different from younger generations. Word games are a powerful way to boost your concentration, mindfulness, and attention. Plus, who doesn’t love to brush up on their spelling skills?

The best word games for grandparents are Scrabble, Boggle, and Scattergories. These are popular games that all ages can enjoy, and they’re universally loved by the young and the old. 

23. Number games

For those who prefer numbers over words, there are also a lot of fun number games to try with your grandparents. Games like Dominos, Rummikub, and Yahtzee are all about number matching in an approachable way. These are easy for all ages to enjoy, and they can get pretty competitive too!

24. Complete a crossword puzzle

Crossword puzzles are fun alone or with the whole family. Whether your grandma always does the New York Times crossword puzzle or this is new for the both of you, why not challenge yourself to tackle this game together? There are a lot of great crossword puzzles for free online, but you can also clip one out of your local paper. 

25. Play chess

There’s a reason chess is such a classic game. This ageless strategy game is one that many grandparents have already mastered throughout their lifetime. Passing their favorite strategies and game theories onto the next generation is a beautiful way to bond. This is a memory everyone can cherish for years to come. 

26. Play cards

Lastly, challenge your grandparent to a riveting game of cards. There are so many fun card games, and these are easy to play on the go. Classic games include Go Fish, Old Maid, Rummy, Crazy Eights, and Warm. 

There’s no fancy equipment or tools needed to get started! If you have a deck of cards, you can challenge your grandparent to a round of their favorite card game. Game on! 

Finding things to do with teens or young adults and grandparents can be more of a challenge. At this age, it can be hard for teens to find common ground with those in older generations. Here are some meaningful ways to bridge the gap with teen or young adult grandkids and grandparents. 

27. Volunteer for a cause

One great way to get teens or young adults engaged is through volunteer work. Finding a common interest, like a love for animals or the environment, is a great first step. Next, work together to volunteer with a related nonprofit group. Not only is this a hands-on way to bond, but it’s also sure to be a beneficial experience all around. 

28. See a movie in theaters

Visiting the theater together is another way to bond between generations. Find the latest blockbuster hit on the big screen, with the biggest shared popcorn of course! Not only can you explore new films together, but you’ll also have something interesting to talk about after the flick ends. 

Love seeing movies? Make this a regular tradition. Trade of choosing the movie so you can try a variety of genres and flicks. From summer comedies to chick flicks, there is a whole world on the silver screen to discover together. 

29. Go bowling

Can you really ever go wrong with bowling and pizza? While it might seem a bit cliche and old-fashioned at first, teens and young adults love to get active. Bowling is a safe, gentle activity all ages can enjoy. It’s sure to be a time full of laughter and fun, even if you throw endless gutterballs. 

30. Try mini-golf

Speaking of getting active together, another gentle and carefree outdoor activity is mini-golf. Miniature golf might be a “golden oldie,” but it’s loved by all to this day. Teenagers still enjoy hitting a round of mini-golf, so this is the perfect afternoon activity for the whole family to enjoy. Like bowling, it’s sure to be full of laughs!

31. Visit a theme park

Lastly, why not visit a theme park? Teenagers love theme parks, whether they have thrill rides or unique shows. If there’s a theme park near your home, taking a day trip out together is the perfect way to break the ice. 

Both teens and grandparents are sure to open up over the exciting thrills, exploration, and adventure together. What a beautiful memory for all! There’s something magical about spending a day immersed in a themed environment with those you love. 

Finally, what things can toddlers or small children do with grandparents? Small kids love their grandparents, but it’s important for them to feel stimulated and excited about the world around them. These ideas below are perfect for young toddlers and children. 

32. Visit a children’s museum

First, one of the best ways to connect with young kids is through a children’s museum. These are found in most major cities, and they’re focused on helping young children understand the world. From science to art exhibits, you’ll find play and learning areas for all ages, including toddlers. 

Better yet, get an annual membership so the grandparents can come back again and again. Having somewhere special to enjoy with your grandkids makes powerful memories, and this becomes a place you share together. 

33. Explore the playground

Small kids also love playgrounds. Who said you need to go somewhere expensive to have fun? Your local playground or park is sure to offer more than enough entertainment. Visiting a playground with the grandparents lets the kids explore their favorite spot from a new perspective, whether you’re playing tag or digging in the sand. 

34. Bake cookies

Is there anything more soothing than baking cookies with your grandparents? Whether you start a new family tradition or use an old family recipe, this is a beloved activity to try together. Baking cookies is easy enough that small kids and toddlers can help, and everyone loves licking the spoon. Once cooked, enjoy a warm cookie and milk before nap time. 

35. Make a family photo memory game

A fun craft and game to play together involves using old photos. Create duplicates of your family photos and line them up face-down for a memory matching game perfect for young kids. Not only can you introduce your grandchild to other members of the family, but you can also engage critical thinking skills. 

When you’re done putting the photos together for your game, create an album together. Have the child decorate their own photo frame, creating a memento you both designed together. What a beautiful way to remember a special time. 

36. Read a story

Last but certainly not least, read a story. Storytelling has connected generations since the dawn of humanity. Continue this tradition by reading or telling a story to your grandchild. Young kids and toddlers love stories. Whether you put together a tale about pirates and princesses or their own parents, this is something they’ll cherish forever. 

Grow Closer with Your Grandparents

The bonds between grandkids and their grandparents are strong, and they truly last a lifetime. While there might be more gaps between these generations than ever before, you can close them with a few thoughtful activities. This list above gets you started no matter how much distance lies between you. 

Now is the time to cherish these memories. Your loved ones won’t be around forever, so appreciate all the time you do have—even in the little moments. 

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Parents Blocking Grandparents’ Relationship With Grandchildren

We want to build a meaningful relationship with our grandchildren. But our daughter and son-in-law have pushed us away to the point where it seems they don’t want much to do with us. So we have very little interaction with the grandkids — and when their parents do allow it, the time is limited.

As painful as it may be to accept, this comes down to respecting your kids’ wishes. The reality is that you can’t truly go where you haven’t been invited. If you try to push your way in, you’ll only alienate your daughter and her husband even further. Better to step back and take a close look at the situation before trying to do anything about it.

Try to figure out what’s really going on

Looking back to what might have led to all this could give valuable insights that will help you decide the best next steps. Why do you think your daughter and son-in-law have been keeping their distance?

Things like this happen for a reason. And in our experience, that reason may have something to do with an offense — whether real or imagined. Some people are too easily offended. Others see offenses where they don’t exist. It’s possible that your daughter and son-in-law fall into one of these categories. And if so, there may not be much you can do to solve the problem.

On the other hand, if you believe that you have done something wrong, don’t be afraid to admit it. Even the best-intentioned parents make mistakes. Send your daughter and her husband a short note taking responsibility for your actions. Ask their forgiveness, express your desire to restore the relationship, and request that they let you know how they want to move forward. This may not fix anything, but it’s the right thing to do as you work toward a positive change.

Don’t be afraid to ask for professional help

If it’s possible, and if your daughter and son-in-law are willing, find a certified family counselor who can sit down with the four of you and help you work through the communication process.

That’s the best way to unpack the deeper implications of what’s happened and start the process of reconciliation. If you can get to the point where someone is willing to say I was wrong , forgiveness and healing can really begin.

A trained therapist can show you how to listen more effectively, hear what’s actually being said, and genuinely understand each other’s concerns. They can also help you talk through family dynamics that might be driving your daughter’s behavior and causing your feelings of alienation.

But what if your daughter and son-in-law won’t go along with this plan?

When your children still aren’t open to a relationship

If that’s the case, you don’t have much choice except to abide by the boundaries they’ve set. If they ask you not to call or visit, don’t. Sadly, there’s really no way around it. We know it hurts if that means you won’t be seeing your grandchildren as much as you’d like — and maybe not at all. What should you do then?

• Get some perspective on the situation. Make up your minds that this isn’t the end of the world.
• Set boundaries of your own so that you won’t be hurt by your daughter’s and son-in-law’s attitudes and actions. “Unrealistic expectations feed disappointment and discouragement, while realistic expectations keep you engaged and content with where your relationship is right now .”
• Remember who you are as a person in Christ. Don’t become obsessed with this issue, and don’t let your personal worth to be defined by your children’s acceptance or rejection.
• Guard your own heart and be careful that you don’t become bitter .
• Talk to your pastor or a licensed counselor to deal with your pain.
• And always pray. By God’s grace, there’s always a chance that the relationship will change someday .

In the meantime, remember Paul’s advice in Romans 12:21 : “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (ESV). Come up with a plan to express your love in small, low-key ways. You can still influence your grandchildren’s lives by sending them cards on birthdays, at Christmas, and on other noteworthy occasions.

Don’t send money or gifts because that may be seen as manipulation. Instead, just say something like, We’re thinking of you and praying for you. Love, Grandma and Grandpa. If nothing else, that will lay the groundwork for reconnecting with them once they’re grown and can make up their own minds about having a relationship with you.

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If you’d like to talk more about your situation, call us for a free over-the-phone consultation at 1-855-771-HELP (4357) . Our licensed or pastoral counselors would welcome the chance to pray with you and offer practical suggestions. They can also suggest referrals to qualified counselors and Christian therapists in your area . In the meantime, dig into the resources below.

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How Often Should Grandchildren See Their Grandparents? Visit Times

Our kids are growing up too fast. It feels like only yesterday they were born, and they are already running around and getting into everything. As parents, we want to spend as much time with them as possible, but we also have to work and take care of other responsibilities. That’s why it’s important to ensure our kids spend time with their grandparents.

So, How often should grandchildren see their grandparents?

There is no set rule for how often grandchildren should see their grandparents as it varies depending on personal circumstances. It is recommended to maintain regular contact through phone or video calls and visit when possible.

It’s important to consider the child’s age, distance, and the grandparent’s availability. Ultimately, the frequency of visits should be based on the family’s preferences and schedule.

Here is everything you need to know about children spending time with grandparents.

How Often Should Grandchildren See Their Grandparents?

If grandchildren have local grandparents, then it is reasonable they’ll see them weekly or every other week, perhaps for a few hours each visit. However, if the relatives live out of state, visits might only happen 3-4 times/year but last a week or more per stay.

How Much Should Grandparents Be Involved?

If you belong to a close-knit family, you may also anticipate that your children will see their grandmother and grandpa frequently and will be able to help look after them if you have to work or travel away. It doesn’t matter either way; it’s critical to communicate your limits upfront and choose what’s best for your family.

Navigating A Long-Distance Relationship Between Your Children And Their Grandparents

Grandparents who don’t get to see their grandchildren miss out on important life events, which is both painful for them and the grandkids. So, how often should grandchildren see their grandparents? And how to bridge the gap?

Make Use of Technology

The popularity of apps and other handheld devices has made it easier for people in long-distance relationships to stay connected.

Keep Them Updated

This method requires work and time, but it may be a fantastic approach to keep grandparents informed about their grandkids’ lives while also making them feel part of it.

Plan Reciprocal Visits

Grandparents may stay in your house for a week if you have room. If you spend $500 on party supplies, your child can spend time with their grandparents twice a year. If you don’t have room at home, consider whether renting or staying in a hotel would be less expensive as they’ll still be close enough to come over and participate in family meals and other events.

Benefits Of Children Seeing Their Grandparents Often

Being around grandparents has been linked to children’s emotional intelligence and well-being. In addition to providing support for parents and helping with childcare, regular time spent with grandparents can benefit your grandchild in many ways. 

Promotes Happiness

Grandkids love spending time with their grandparents, not just because they get to eat all of the candy. Grandparents have a unique relationship with their grandchild that is also beneficial for the parent. When a grandchild spends time with their grandparent, especially if they live far away, both benefit in several ways.

Development Of Social Skills

Spending time with family also allows them to ask questions, listen and learn from additional role models.

The Drawbacks Of Your Child Seeing Their Grandparents Too Often

While there are several advantages to seeing your grandparents frequently, there are also some drawbacks. If you notice anything unusual about your parent’s or child’s behavior that you don’t like, you must bring it up immediately with them and work together to solve the problem.

Blurred Boundaries

If your child spends extended periods with grandparents, it can cause them to feel unclear about who they should listen to when receiving instructions. This lack of clarity can disrupt routines – especially for younger children.

To prevent this from happening, have a conversation with the grandparents early on about any routines you have established with your child. For example, if bedtime is typically 7 p.m., ensure that the overnight grandchild sticks to this schedule.

Unhealthy Attachments

If you start to witness any alarming characteristics in a grandparent, immediately address the situation by setting boundaries and properly explaining why their behavior is so distressing.

Copying Of Habits

Children are like sponges and will absorb the behaviors of those around them, so if they spend time with people who swear, are rude, or have poor hygiene habits, it’s likely they will start to adopt these same behaviors.

If your parents watch your children while you’re away, explain that it’s important for them to demonstrate the behavior you want them to emulate and that they should help reinforce the values you’ve taught them.

Creating Grandparent Boundaries

It’s not unusual for grandparents to cross the line now and then regarding their grandchildren. Some examples include disregarding your parenting wishes, exposing them to unsuitable activities, or speaking badly about you in front of your baby.

Even though it might be tough to bring this up with them, you must have this conversation if you’re looking for ways to tell grandparents to back off in a collected yet stern way.

Overbearing Grandparents

A new baby in the family is a big change, and Grandparents often want a say in how things are done. If you find that your child’s grandparents are giving too much-unsolicited advice or trying to tell you how to parent, it’s important to set some boundaries.

You can explain that while you appreciate their experience, you ultimately need to do what works for your family. This may be different from what they did raising their children or what they think is best–and that’s okay!

Grandparents Crossing Boundaries

Grandparents’ poor treatment of their parents can have a detrimental influence on the parent-child bond and the parent-grandparent relationship. If you detect that your child’s grandparents are constantly undermining you or that they are acting against your parenting instructions.

It’s time to speak up. It’s fine to point out someone else’s behavior; if they don’t respond positively after being confronted, it might be time to stop seeing them.

Managing Expectations

If your parents’ expectations do not match how often they would like to see their grandchildren, here are some things you can try.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q1: how often do most grandparents see grandkids.

Ans: The answer to this question varies based on each family’s circumstances. Some grandparents might live close by and see their grandkids daily, while others might live in different states or countries and only get to see them a few times per year.

Q2: How often is it normal for grandparents to visit?

Ans: Some grandparents might visit once a week, while others might only come for special occasions or holidays.

Q3: How often should grandparents look after their grandchildren?

Ans: The frequency of grandparent-grandchild babysitting sessions varies depending on the family’s needs and schedule. Some grandparents might watch their grandchildren a few times per week, while others might only do it occasionally.

Q4: What should a grandparent not do?

Ans: There are a few things that grandparents should avoid doing, such as: Disrespecting the parents’ wishes or authority. Exposing the grandchildren to unsuitable activities. Speaking badly about the parents in front of the children.

Q5: Should grandparents feel obligated to babysit?

Ans: No, grandparents should not feel obligated to babysit their grandchildren. If they are unable or unwilling to do so, the parents should find another childcare option.

Be sure not to wait until there’s a problem setting expectations with your child’s grandparents. You can avoid potential conflict down the road by having an open and honest conversation from the start. Most grandmas love touching and kissing their grandchildren. This can sometimes be too much for the grandchild.

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How often do you visit your grandparents? Hai asked Hoa

Lời giải 5 trang 97 SBT Tiếng Anh 8 sách Global Success hay nhất, chi tiết sẽ giúp học sinh dễ dàng làm bài tập Tiếng Anh 8.

Giải SBT Tiếng Anh 8 trang 95, 96, 97 Unit 12 Vocabulary & Grammar - Global Success

5 (trang 97 SBT Tiếng Anh 8 Global Success) : Change the following questions into reported questions. (Chuyển các câu hỏi sau thành câu hỏi tường thuật.)

1. "How often do you visit your grandparents?" Hai asked Hoa.

2. She asked me, "What does a UFO look like?"

3. The student asked his teacher, "Why is the climate on Mars unsuitable for human life?"

4. "Which is longer, a day on Venus or a day on Earth?" I wondered.

5. "Why do people call Mars the Red Planet?" my son asked me.

Đáp án:

1. Hai asked Hoa how often she visited her grandparents.

2. She asked me what a UFO looked like.

3. The student asked his teacher why the climate on Mars was unsuitable for human life.

4. I wondered which was longer, a day on Venus or a day on Earth.

5. My son asked me why people called Mars the Red Planet.

Giải thích:

Cấu trúc lời nói gián tiếp với câu hỏi: S+ ask (wonder, want to know) + question word + clause (lùi thì).

Hướng dẫn dịch:

A. Câu trực tiếp

1. "Bạn có thường xuyên đến thăm ông bà của mình không?" Hải hỏi Hoa.

2. Cô ấy hỏi tôi, "UFO trông như thế nào?"

3. Học sinh hỏi giáo viên: "Tại sao khí hậu trên sao Hỏa không thích hợp cho cuộc sống của con người?"

4. "Cái nào dài hơn, một ngày trên sao Kim hay một ngày trên Trái đất?" Tôi tự hỏi.

5. "Tại sao người ta gọi sao Hỏa là Hành tinh Đỏ?" con trai tôi hỏi tôi.

B. Câu gián tiếp

1. Hải hỏi Hoa rằng cô ấy có thường xuyên đến thăm ông bà của cô ấy không.

2. Cô ấy hỏi tôi UFO trông như thế nào.

3. Cậu học sinh hỏi giáo viên tại sao khí hậu trên sao Hỏa không phù hợp với cuộc sống của con người.

4. Tôi tự hỏi cái nào dài hơn, một ngày trên sao Kim hay một ngày trên Trái đất.

5. Con trai tôi hỏi tôi tại sao người ta gọi sao Hỏa là Hành tinh Đỏ.

Xem thêm lời giải bài tập Tiếng Anh lớp 8 sách Global Success hay khác:

1 (trang 95 SBT Tiếng Anh 8 Global Success):  Rearrange the letters to name the following pictures ...

2 (trang 96 SBT Tiếng Anh 8 Global Success):  Use the words in 1 to complete the following sentences...

3 (trang 96 SBT Tiếng Anh 8 Global Success):   Choose the correct words to complete ...

4 (trang 96 SBT Tiếng Anh 8 Global Success):   Underline the correct words or phrases to complete the following ...

5 (trang 97 SBT Tiếng Anh 8 Global Success):  Change the following questions into reported questions...

6 (trang 97 SBT Tiếng Anh 8 Global Success):  Write the exact questions the policeman asked a woman ...

A. Pronunciation (trang 95)

C. Speaking (trang 97, 98)

D. Reading (trang 99, 100)

E. Writing (trang 101)

Unit 8: Shopping

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Bài viết cùng lớp mới nhất

• Write a passage about one of the trips to the ethnic villages you discussed in Speaking. Use the Writing Skill box and your speaking notes to help you. Write 80 to 100 words.
• b. In pairs: What do you think about the trips to Kon K'Tu and Phia Tháp? Would you like to go there?
• b. Read the topic sentence and the supporting information. Then, write "F" for facts, "E" for examples, and "O" for opinions.
• d. In pairs: What do you think about the activities Lan did on her trip? Would you like to try any of them?
• 1. Where's Jun Village? 2. Where did Lan stay on her trip to Jun Village? 3. What does Lan think about Lák Lake?
• 1. Jun Village is one of the most beautiful places in Vietnam. 2. I had an exciting trip to Jun Village.
• c. What information would you most like to learn about different ethnic groups? Why?
• b. Swap roles and repeat. Student B, you spoke with a Red Dao woman. Tell your friend about your vacation using the notes above.
• a. You recently met an ethnic person from Vietnam on a trip and want to tell your friend about it.
• Take turns reporting the questions and answers. Remember to show interest to get more information as you listen. Swap roles and repeat.

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